Twelve Cooks. Eleven Cookbooks. And The Internet.

By Karen and Erica

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e regularly cook for our families, as do many women—and some men. We’re not exactly chefs, but we put a lot into our creations.

Our menus have changed a bit over the years. Before spouses, we lived on popcorn and white wine. Before children, we spent time creating elegant dinners by candlelight. While children were young, first we mushed up whatever we were eating so they would not have to eat that jarred stuff, then we became expert at crepes with Nutella, mac and cheese, and chocolate chip cookies. That expertise is still called upon when the children visit, but cooking for two usually means fish and vegetables.

One structural part of cooking has changed over time. We used to cook mostly from cookbooks. Now, we often search the internet, asking what we can cook with whatever we have. Frozen cod, tamarind, scallions and rice? There’s a recipe for that! We also asked ChatGPT—its offering in Comments!

Still, nothing beats a good cookbook. They can give you taste and history and nuance, and allow you to travel to far off lands. Here are some relatively new ones (two introduced by daughters) that we use now:

Many of these chefs also have excellent blogs or newsletters. We especially like Alison Roman’s, because she is funny and forgiving.

Why do we cook? Because we think it is part of life. You miss half the fun when you order in—the smell of the foods you have chosen to put together. You miss the thrill of discovery when you create something yummy. (Of course you also miss the despair of cooking something inedible, as sometimes happens!) We find we do some of our best thinking while our hands are busy with food. (Kneading bread dough is really good for thought!) And home cooked food is healthier—we can control things like sugar and salt.

And there’s the shopping. We love green markets, especially as the weather gets better, for us and for the produce and the chickens and their eggs. Whatever’s in season—now, ramps, spring garlic, radishes—all look so painterly when the sun is shining. And we like stores full of foods we need to learn how to use. Like Sahadi’s for Middle Eastern.

The wonderful cooks we grew up with (from the culinary perspective) inspired us early and often. Here are just a few guides from long ago that we still use:

Do you cook? What are your favorites?



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